For the Classroom
Decisiveness
Turning insight into action by making firm, responsible choices
Decisiveness supports smooth school operations and clear expectations.
When educators make timely, thoughtful choices, students experience stability and structure. Decisiveness strengthens leadership and classroom management.
Essay
What ‘Could’ I Do?
by Jill Tomey
Daniel Pink did a Pinkcast on changing one word when thinking about problem-solving. I think it applies to decisions in general. We often say to ourselves, “What ‘should’ I do? His suggestion is to change the word to ‘could’. He describes ‘should thinking’ as narrowing and ‘could thinking’ as widening. Saying to yourself, “What ‘could’ I do?” provides more possibilities to think about without trying to hit on the perfect answer in a single try. I ‘could’ ask my brother to help me with my homework. I ‘could’ reread the chapter. I ‘could’ try one more time. The benefit is that the more options you have to choose from, the more likely you are to hit on the best one or at least a good one.
I offer an additional option. Ask yourself, “What shouldn’t I do?” Sometimes, it is easier to identify and eliminate the bad or less desirable options first. No, I ‘shouldn’t’ just quit doing my homework. No, I ‘shouldn’t’ watch TV instead. Thinking of the easier options can provide a jump-start on considering the options that are workable or have a chance of success. Recognizing bad options can give you a small confidence boost as well. If I can recognize a bad option, then I am also capable of recognizing a good option.
This month, how will you frame your questions for being Decisive?
Affirmations for the Classroom
I think about my choices before I decide.
I trust myself to make good choices.I choose what I know is right.
I can make good choices even if others don’t.
I get wiser every time I make a thoughtful choice.
Decisiveness Resource Library
The Links below will take you to Resources like activities, lessons, reflections, tools, and visuals you can use in the classroom or in homeschool to teach the Character Quality of Decisiveness.
Decisiveness Quotes
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