For the Faithful
Self-Control
Managing my impulses to make steady progress toward my goals
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Self-control helps believers live with wisdom and spiritual discipline.
When we manage our words, emotions, and actions, we reflect the transforming work of the Holy Spirit. Self-control creates a community marked by peace and maturity.
Essay
Small Temptations
by Jill Tomey
The world throws temptations at us daily, so it is important to stay focused on what God wants us to do. Self-control is a fruit of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23), so exercising discipline reflects our life in God. When we practice saying No to even little temptations, it builds our discipline for saying No to larger temptations. Prayer, attending worship services and meditating on the scriptures are all ways to build our discipline so that our actions are influenced by God.
This month, build your discipline by recognizing and resisting temptations of all sizes.
Affirmations for the Faithful
I focus on things I can control knowing God will take care of the rest.
I pause, pray, and let the Holy Spirit guide me to a smart choice.
I walk away from things that pull me away from God.
I trust God’s timing and understand that wanting something doesn’t mean I get it.
I rely on God’s peace to steady my heart and shape my actions.
Self-Control Resource Library
The Links below will take you to Resources, like activities, reflections, and visuals you can use personally or in your faith organization to encourage the Character Quality of Self-Control.
Self-Control Verses
Want to deepen your understanding of Self-Control through Scripture? Explore our collection of Self-Control Bible Verses for inspiration and reflection.
