For the Family

Focus

Concentrating my effort and managing distractions

Focus helps families stay present and attentive to what matters most.

When we give our full attention to tasks or conversations, relationships deepen and responsibilities get done well. Focus strengthens both productivity and connection.

Essay

Band Teaches Focus

by Jill Tomey

My kids were in marching band from middle school through college and learned much more than music scores or drill charts. Band taught them Focus. Long and frequent practices spent learning music and drills taught them that Focus will reward them with mastering skills, attaining goals, and accomplishing tasks.

When the band performs, it acts as a team, but it’s different than a sports team. Band teaches about improving your contribution to the team. You are competing against yourself to get better. Practicing your part alone, focusing on the same few measures until they are mastered, provides personal feedback you can use for improvement. Focus in any area requires both focus and feedback.

When Focus results in success, it builds confidence in your skills, and it builds confidence in Focus. Band students are proud of the accomplishment of the group and in knowing they contributed to something bigger than themselves. Keeping up with practice isn’t always fun but letting down other band members is even less fun. Their personal ownership and commitment to the band feeds Focus.

How can you use your Focus for success?

“That awkward moment when you realize the marching band works harder than the football team.” – Kathleen Alcock

“You know, if I can survive marching band, I can survive anything.” – Nellie McKay

“Band is not proud because it performs well; it performs well because it is proud.” – George Parks

Band Director Quotes:

“One more time.”

“Early is on time. On-time is late.”

Affirmations for the Family

  • I pay attention and stay on task.

  • I follow directions.

  • I finish my chores.

  • I block out distractions.

  • I listen carefully to others.

Focus Resource Library

The Links below will take you to Resources you can use with your family to encourage the Character Quality of Focus.

Focus Quotes

Looking for reminders that Focus makes a difference? Explore the full collection of Focus Quotes and find the perfect line to share, post, or spark a conversation.

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