For the Family
Dependability
Keeping my promises and obligations even when it requires extra effort
Dependability builds a home where people feel supported and secure.
When we keep our promises, trust grows and responsibilities feel shared. Dependability helps families function with stability and care.
Essay
Dependability in the Family
by Jill Tomey
My mother passed away in 2022, weeks before her 97th birthday. She had been in assisted living or nursing care for over ten years. Even so, she needed a great deal of family care, hand-holding, and daily visits. I was the primary person responsible for her care and finances. While I did the bulk of the work, I was by no means alone. My siblings appreciated that I had stepped up to take care of things. Because of this, they never said no to me whenever I asked for help. For example, when Mom was in the hospital or recovering from a stay, she needed someone with her all day and sometimes all night. Having a family member there helped to lessen her anxiety and fears. I would send an email out asking for sibling availability. Even the sibling spouses pitched in to help. Using everyone’s prompt responses, I would create a master schedule. Everyone was dependable, showed up on time, and volunteered enough to distribute the work. Mom knew she could depend on us to care for her, and each of us knew we could count on the other siblings to lighten the load.
Dependability is a key quality in any relationship, and it’s especially important in families. When family members are dependable, they can count on each other for support, help, and companionship. This can make a big difference in the overall happiness and well-being of the family unit. Being a dependable family takes time, effort, and commitment. However, the benefits are worth it. A dependable family is a strong family that can weather any storm.
How can Dependability strengthen your family?
Affirmations for the Family
I keep my word and do what I say I’ll do.
I think carefully before I make a promise.
I fix my mistakes and try to make things right.
I do my part when we’re working together.
I pay attention to what I can handle and ask for help when I need it.
Dependability Resource Library
The Links below will take you to Resources you can use with your family to encourage the Character Quality of Dependability.
Dependability Quotes
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