For the Family

Gratitude

Appreciating the support, opportunities, and kindness from others

Gratitude helps families appreciate the big and small gifts of daily life.

When we express thanks, we lift each other’s spirits and notice the good around us. Gratitude creates a home filled with warmth and appreciation.

Essay

Thank with Character

by Jill Tomey

We may utter the words “Thank You” or a similar phrase often, but if you really want the phrase to be heard, pair it with a character quality. For children, especially, when you recognize their character-based effort over the achievement, it identifies a generalized good behavior to repeat over the specific reason for the thanks. Here’s an example: Margie, thanks for helping your brother with his chores. You were generous with your time in helping someone. Robert, thanks for bringing me soup when I was sick. You are so compassionate. When you deepen your thanks by including character, you are showing a deeper observation which can make the receiver of your thanks feel even more appreciated.

How will you use character in your Thank yous?

Affirmations for the Family

  • I use kind words to show others I appreciate them.

  • I say “thank you” often and mean it.

  • I am grateful for what I have, so I treat it well.

  • I focus on what I can celebrate, not what I lack.

  • I recognize small wins and let them motivate me.

Gratitude Resource Library

The Links below will take you to Resources you can use with your family to encourage the Character Quality of Gratitude.

Gratitude Quotes

Looking for reminders that Gratitude makes a difference? Explore the full collection of Gratitude Quotes and find the perfect line to share, post, or spark a conversation.

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