For the Faithful
Forgiveness
Letting go of grudges to restore my own well being
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Forgiveness reflects the heart of Christ and restores unity within the body.
When we release resentment and choose grace, relationships heal and peace returns. Forgiveness creates a community where mercy is practiced and love is renewed.
Essay
Why Forgive?
By Rev. Dr. Roger Braun, Retired Methodist Minister, guest columnist
In every life, there comes a time when someone we know hurts us. Sometimes that person hurts us so bad that we say to ourselves, “I can never forgive them.” However, a main value that is crucial to a healthy life is the character of forgiveness. In the Bible, we are commanded to forgive others no matter who they are or how badly they hurt us. Still, people will ask the question, “Why should I forgive them?”
In the New Testament, Jesus is said to have told a story about a rich farmer who had two sons. One son stayed on the farm with the father while the other son took his inheritance, left the farm, and wasted his money. When the money ran out, the son went back to his father to beg the father’s forgiveness. Would the father forgive his son? He did! Because the father, by forgiving, gained back his son, and that was all the father wanted.
People think that forgiving the one who hurt them will be a benefit to that person. Therefore, they refuse to forgive that person who doesn’t deserve to receive a blessing. Nothing could be further from the truth. The real truth is that forgiveness blesses the one who forgives. By forgiving others, YOU are released from anger, jealousy, hurt, or revenge. By forgiving, YOU are blessed, not the other person. With forgiveness, YOU receive the blessings of peace, restoration, wholeness, and completion. Forgiveness is a powerful character and value. Its power is directed towards you.
Affirmations for the Faithful
I am quick to release resentment because God calls me to forgive and trust Him with justice.
I apologize when needed, knowing the Lord restores and strengthens me.
I use forgiveness to better understand others because Christ has forgiven me first.
I respond with the wisdom and gentleness of Christ, not with retaliation.
I choose actions that reflect God's love and my character, not my hurt.
Forgiveness Resource Library
The Links below will take you to Resources, like activities, reflections, and visuals you can use personally or in your faith organization to encourage the Character Quality of Forgiveness.
Forgiveness Verses
Want to deepen your understanding of Forgiveness through Scripture? Explore our collection of Forgiveness Bible Verses for inspiration and reflection.
