Confidence helps family members step into challenges with courage.
When we believe in our abilities, we try new things and grow in independence. Confidence encourages children and adults to trust themselves and each other.
Essay
You’ve Got This!
by Mary Andres Russell
How encouraging to hear that statement! Whether from a friend, co-worker, teacher or parent, the statement expresses their confidence in our ability to do the job well, perform the task… It says that others believe in us, even when we don’t quite believe in ourselves.
When we speak words of encouragement to others, it has a powerful effect of building their confidence. We are not only lifting them up, but we are also empowering them to achieve their goals.
Many experts recommend that we praise our children or students four times as often as we correct them. When we speak words of encouragement, it communicates our expectations and lets children know what they are doing right. Praise the behavior you want to see, and correct when necessary.
Who can you encourage today? A child, a coworker, a student, a grandchild? Who do you know that would benefit from a quick text or call to let them know, “You’ve got this!”
Affirmations for the Family
I learn from helpful criticism.
I am brave enough to speak up kindly and clearly.
I am not defined by my past; every day is a fresh start.
I am stronger than my worries.
I picture myself doing well and reaching my goals.
Confidence Resource Library
The Links below will take you to Resources you can use with your family to encourage the Character Quality of Confidence.
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