Acceptance helps create a home where every family member feels safe to be themselves.
When we see each other’s differences as strengths rather than flaws, relationships deepen and misunderstandings soften. Acceptance nurtures a family culture where curiosity, compassion, and belonging grow naturally.
Essay
Building Bridges
by Mary Andres Russell
Do you have someone in your life that you disagree with? You don’t share their opinions, or they trigger you in some way? Of course, we all do. Acceptance is the quality that helps us build bridges. While we will not agree with every other person’s opinions or behavior, we can work through our differences by showing courtesy, civility, and respect.
Many times, when someone gets under our skin, there is something we can learn from them or through the situation. Maybe we make similar mistakes (such as jumping to conclusions) and don’t see it. Maybe that person is strong in some character quality (such as boldness or persuasiveness) that is a weakness for us.
This month, when someone triggers you, take the time to consider their strengths and weaknesses and how they mirror your own. You may see that person and the situation in a whole new light. Ultimately, we can’t change other people. We can only change ourselves.
We can also create a safe place in our workplace and homes for open dialogue. How? By sharing facts, by listening to others’ side of the story, by sincerely trying to understand their motives, by establishing common goals, and by looking for the best in others.
NEEDS UPDATING Affirmations for the Family
I am thankful for the talents of others.
I am willing to admit my mistakes.
I am open to asking for help when I need it.
I am aware that my way is not the only way.
I am learning to think of myself less often.
Acceptance Resource Library
The Links below will take you to Resources you can use with your family to encourage the Character Quality of Acceptance.
Celebrate Character Qualities All Month
Use the holidays this month to celebrate our other qualities.
Build Community in Your Home
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